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It takes a lot to open a business, and we should especially admire those business owners who have had to surmount some unbelievable and overwhelming obstacles to be successful. My Health Reflexology & Massage Spa, which just opened in La Verne, might be the poster child for overcoming overwhelming odds and starting a successful enterprise.
Amid a hail of gunfire, Michelle Bui, pincipal owner of the Spa, fled communist Vietnam in 1982 with two of her brothers while the other six members of her family, including her mom and dad, were caught, arrested and imprisoned for a year. At sea, the ship was adrift for 12 days in stormy seas when the engines quit. She was only 10 at the time before the ship finally docked in Malaysia.
âHave you seen the movie âCastaway,ââ Michelle asked. âThe sea was exactly the same. A lot of people died. Her parents did not know whether she had survived the daring ocean escape.
After their harrowing ordeal, she and her brothers, then ages 12 and 14, stayed in a Malaysian refugee camp.
âWe were unaccompanied minors, so no one wanted us,â said Michelle, now 37, though she looks much younger because of her petite size and easy, welcoming smile. âThe United States did not want kids unless they were the children of government officials. Australia only wanted families and Canada only wanted single, young people who could go there and work.â
Despite being uprooted and feeling unwanted, the three children worked hard in school during the day and sought to learn English and French at night.
âWe went on our own,â Michelle.
In fact, Michelle said many kids their same age were troublemakers, according to Michelle. âA lot of the kids just played. No one forces you to go to school. The beach is there; you can go all day long and do whatever you want.â
Word got out around camp about the industrious, hard-working youngsters, and they learned they were to be sent to France, where there were many orphanages for Vietnamese children. âThe only country that wanted us was France,â Michelle said.
Heading to the U.S.A.
Then just when they thought they were heading to France, they were nominated for a special program supported by Nancy Reagan, President Ronald Reaganâs wife. A U.S. resettlement delegation interviewed them.
âIt was just like a job interview,â Michelle recalled. âThey asked, âWhere do you see yourself in 10 years?ââ Michelle replied that she wanted to be a nurse. One brother said âdoctor,â the other said âengineer.â
The interviewer told them people had been saying good things about them, and that âthey better thank Nancy Reagan for this.â
Two years after their odyssey began, they finally arrived safely in the United States. Catholic Charities helped match them with a Vietnamese man who was the only one in his family to escape.
âHe had two boys and a daughter, exactly like us,â Michelle said, âbut when he left, he had to leave them and his wife behind.â
Despite struggling to overcome the language barrier, Michelle earned a full scholarship to the University of California. She eventually changed her major from biology to psychology and gravitated toward social work, a field for which her personal experience had certainly prepared her. Her brothers were just as industrious because they knew that to sponsor their parents and bring them to the United States, it would cost money.
âYou need $10,000 in the bank for each person sponsored,â Michelle explained. In 1998, the three children finally had save enough to bring their parents to the United States.
Coming up short
The meeting at the airport didnât go quite as planned, however. Moms will still be moms. Upon seeing Michelle, her mom couldnât believe how tiny her daughter still was.
âI canât believe youâve havenât grown,â Michelleâs mom told her, not having seen her daughter since Michell was 10. âI thought everybody grows when they go to America.â
But Michelle grew in other more meaningful ways. In addition to obtaining her bachelorâs degree and landing a job as a social worker in Orange County, she is now pursuing a masterâs in health psychology.
Before she could open My Health Reflexology & Massage Spa, she had to find a suitable location, including a city that could see past the âmassageâ stigma. Michelle had many friends who attended the University of La Verne, so when a space opened in the old Vons Shopping Center, they seized it. Still, it took almost a year to open, and several letters and face-to-face meetings with the appropriate officials and city planners to convince them that their business would indeed be a legitimate, health-oriented establishment promoting massage and reflexology as a means to ârenew, refresh, relieve, release, relax and rejuvenateâ the body.
Although just open a short while, My Health has already become well known for its reflexology sessions. A popular alternative therapy, reflexology using acupressure points (not needles) to relieve pain and stiffness, to prevent and cure many symptoms such as headache, stress, asthma, constipation, sinusitis and migraine, and to boost blood circulation. Guests can request a foot reflexology session, focused on the feet, or a signature reflexology session that concentrates on eight different areas of the body: head, neck, shoulders, back, arms, hands, legs and feet. Currently as an opening store promotion, a foot reflexology session is only $26 for one hour. Full body massages are $47 an hour.Â
My Health also offers Swedish, deep tissue and therapeutic acupressure massages. To learn more about My Healthâs variety of traditional therapeutic massages, visit their website at www.myhealthusa1.com.
When Michelle (whose Vietnamese name is My –pronounced âmeâ) was searching for an appropriate website, the domain name âMy Healthâ was already taken. So Michelle attached USA1 to the site.
âIn Vietnamese, âMyâ means âbeautiful,â and âbeautifulâ means the âUnited States of America,ââ said Michelle, who Americanized her name from My to Michelle so there would be no confusion in pronouncing her name. âWhen my mother was pregnant with me, she was sick. There was this American who donated blood, and he promised to continue donating blood until she was better. So, when I was born, my mother named me âMyâ after America.
âNow I attach âUSAâ to everything,â Michelle said.
Michelle has come a long way to be in La Verne. Her story is indeed âbeautiful,â with many benefits for the local community seeking a healthier and more stress free lifestyle.
My Health Reflexology and Health Spa is located at 1451 Foothill Blvd. in La Verne at the corner of Wheeler and Foothill, near the CVS Pharmacy. For more information or to make an appointment, call (909) 392-9218.
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